{"id":12365,"date":"2020-07-10T07:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fightfastvideos.com\/blog\/?p=12365"},"modified":"2020-07-09T13:50:29","modified_gmt":"2020-07-09T13:50:29","slug":"man-skills-do-you-have-personal-bodyguards","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fightfastvideos.com\/blog\/2020\/07\/10\/man-skills-do-you-have-personal-bodyguards\/","title":{"rendered":"Man Skills: Do you have personal bodyguards?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"blog\">\n\nHeads-up... I'm on vacation again for a couple weeks, (my goal is to increase it to 52-weeks hoping nobody will notice).\n\nSo today I'm bringing you an \"oldie but goodie\".\n\nToday let\u2019s talk about exactly who is really responsible for the defense of yourself and your family, (and it may not be who you think).\n\n<!--more-->\n<ul class=\"blog-lists\">\n \t<li><strong>The Cops: Your Personal Body Guards.<\/strong> Nice thought.<\/li>\n \t<li><strong>Bystanders and Friends:<\/strong> Surely they will help.<\/li>\n \t<li><strong>Fists Of Fury:<\/strong> Just 1 or 2 moves is the trick, right?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n[dfads params='groups=292&amp;limit=1&amp;orderby=random']\n<h3 class=\"red\">The Cops<\/h3>\n<h4>The Police: Your 24\/7 Body Guards... Not.<\/h4>\nEven though the car insignia reads \u201cTo Serve And Protect\u201d, with all due respect, (I suspect this will cost me a ticket next week), the cops are not your personal bodyguards. They can\u2019t be.\n\nHere are three reasons we have cops.\n\n<strong>Deterrence:<\/strong> This is their main purpose. They patrol the streets and convince less-than-stellar citizens that criminal activity is a bad idea -- not because it\u2019s wrong, (\u201cyou know Vinney, maybe robbing folks is hurtin' society\"), but because they might get caught.\n\nDeterrence depends on people\u2019s reluctance to take a chance. It\u2019s like the store owner (true story) who kept getting robbed and ripped off, so he placed an obvious cardboard cutout of police officer in a highly visible part of his store.\n\nIt completely eliminated the robberies and dramatically reduced shoplifting. It worked not because anyone was afraid of a cardboard cutout, (although I saw one of Ozzie Osborn that scared the be-Jesus out of me), but because it placed a seed of doubt in the mind of the potential criminal.\n\n(Speaking of which, I\u2019m considering placing a cardboard cutout of myself behind my desk with the voice-activated responses: \u201cYou bet!\u201d, \u201cLet\u2019s talk about this later\u201d, and \u201cI thought we fired that guy\u201d. Believe me, no one will notice the difference).\n\n<strong>Mop up:<\/strong> Okay... this sounds lousy, but much of a cop\u2019s time is spent traveling to crime scenes, talking with victims, writing up reports and \u201cmopping up\u201d the blood.\n\nNow, this has almost nothing to do with preventing crimes, except for the fact that good police work can eventually lead to getting specific criminals off the streets.\n\n<strong>Apprehension:<\/strong> Here\u2019s where cops earn their paycheck. It takes guts to put your ass on the line and hunt down and capture a dangerous criminal.\n\nPlus cops operate under a different set of rules. For you, the goal is to end a fight as quickly as possible by any means necessary, (including vicious name-calling and pulling hair), to stop the threat.\n\nPolice, on the other hand, must abide by \u201cescalating rules of force\u201d, meaning they can\u2019t just head-butt a dangerous crook, but must \u201ccontrol and contain\u201d the threat... a more difficult task.\n\nLast thought about the police: Most people are shocked to discover that the cops do not have the ability, nor the legal obligation, to protect individuals. (Discovered that when I unsuccessfully tried to have my annoying neighbor permanently quarantined).\n\nThe harsh reality is that YOU are responsible for your own protection -- and for that of your loved ones \u2013 not the cops.\n\nThe moral of this story: Learn some simple self-defense skills. It\u2019s pretty easy.\n<div class=\"small-12 medium-10 medium-centered large-11 large-centered columns\">\n\t\t[dfads params='groups=290&amp;limit=1&amp;orderby=random']<\/div>\n<h3 class=\"red\">Bystanders And Friends.<\/h3>\n<h4>How About A Helping Fist, Friend?<\/h4>\nA fight is a serious situation \u2014 whether it begins as an argument over a girl between buddies... a robbery that becomes an assault... or a psychopath twice your size who\u2019s hell-bent on hurting and humiliating you for cheap thrills.\n\nThere are \u201cconflict management\u201d techniques that can work on the \u201cemotionally highjacked\u201d, (we already talked about him, the man-child with anger management issues), to diffuse the situation...\n\n...but overall, when an actual \u201cfight\u201d is on, you really only have two options:\n\n1. Try and end the confrontation quickly, on your terms, or...\n\n2. Escape.\n\nA lot of people want to believe that there\u2019s a third option: Hunker down and willingly \u201ctake a beating\u201d, hoping either that the bad man will show mercy, or that good citizens will jump in to stop the carnage before it gets too ugly.\n\nThat is a bad strategy.\n\nFirst, don\u2019t bet your life on your opponent\u2019s sense of mercy. He may have none and may be more than willing to kill you. So doing nothing to defend yourself may be the last poor decision you ever make.\n\nSecond, never depend on other people \"breaking up\" the conflict. Fact is, bystanders and even your friends are unlikely to step-up and help you.\n\nI\u2019m not just making that up, (although I\u2019ve been known to do that), as there\u2019s solid research to back it all up.\n\nLike the incident where a young man was being beaten-up while his friends laughed, took bets and posted the whole thing on YouTube. (Okay, that was me. Sorry Felix, I was young).\n\nWe\u2019d all like to believe our buddies will back us up, but sociological studies show that the greater the number of friends and bystanders are hanging around, the less likely it is that you\u2019ll get help in a fight.\n\nThe technical term for this is <em>\u201cdilution of responsibility\u201d<\/em>, but I think they should change that name to something less technical like: <em>\u201cDon't really give a s@#!\u201d<\/em>.\n\nOn the other hand, if you have just ONE friend and no crowd of bystanders, your buddy is much more likely to jump in and try to help you out. (\u201cKeep taking those punches... I\u2019ll go get some bandages\u201d).\n\nBut the facts have shown over and over that individuals inside a crowd are less likely to act.\n\nA \u201cgang\u201d mentality is different. They will back each other up because it\u2019s part of their \u201cjob\u201d. (Don\u2019t forget to punch your time-card Guido).\n\n[dfads params='groups=292&amp;limit=1&amp;orderby=random']\n<h3 class=\"red\">Tactics And Techniques<\/h3>\n<h4>You Only Need To Know 1 or 2 Moves... Right?<\/h4>\nI\u2019ve been in the self-defense business for over 30 years now, (what have I been doing with my time?), and noticed that there are two extreme ways of thinking.\n\nSome guys consider self-defense difficult and complex, (it\u2019s not, so there's that)...\n\n...others think that you only need to know \u201cone or two moves\u201d.\n\nOkay, keeping it simple is actually not bad advice, but knowing 1 or 2 techniques is not enough.\n\nBecause, after countless interviews with some of the most dangerous fighters on the planet, I discovered that ALL of these fighters were very quick to see open targets, (or to make them open), then utilize any one of an arsenal of specific techniques to attack those open targets.\n\nSo you should learn at least 3 techniques for each of the \u201cfour ranges\u201d of fighting, including:\n\na. Long Range: Pick up on 3 good long kicks. FightFast has an arsenal of kicks to choose from \u2013 use the ones that fits you best.\n\nb. Medium Range: Choose 3 good punches and short kicks and learn the ear slap, eye jab, and the palm in the face. These simple techniques can (and often do) end the fight in a couple of seconds, but you should never count on it.\n\nc. Close Range \u2013 This is where you\u2019ll be able to end it. There are a lot of vicious and devastating techniques to discover in this range, including specialized knees shots, wicked elbow strikes, and fight-ending headbutts.\n\nExperienced fighters typically use special tactics to get into this range, and then use one of these brutal techniques to end it. It\u2019s lights out, game over.\n\nd. Grappling \u2013 Despite popular belief, research shows that most fights don\u2019t go to the ground unless you\u2019re in a \u201ccontain, control, comply\u201d mode. But it does happen, (especially if the fight goes longer than 12 seconds), so you need to have some ground-n-pound aces up your sleeve.\n\nOkay... let\u2019s back up for a second here. The only time that knowing \u201c2 moves\u201d actually makes sense is when someone is referring to an \u201copening move\u201d and a \u201cfinishing move\u201d.\n\nNot long ago I gathered together eleven of the world's most respected hand to hand fighters -- Special Forces guys, government operatives, and illegal \"pit\" fighters -- to put together a video.\n\nThese guys are my business associates and friends, (and for some reason nobody messes with me anymore), who revealed their favorite \"no-nonsense\" moves they personally use at the start of a real fight, (to gain an instant advantage)...\n\n...and at the end of a real fight, when they want to put their opponent away.\n\nTwo moves, a \"starter\" and a \"finisher\"... and the fight is over.\n\nIf you\u2019re interested in knowing more about this training video, you can check it out <a href=\"https:\/\/fightfast.com\/nbcv\/CM-2\/ntbt-k.php?utm_campaign=Man-Skills-26_CMPVD&amp;utm_medium=post&amp;utm_source=blog&amp;utm_content=77558100&amp;utm_term=existing-list\">HERE.<\/a>\n\nKeep your eyes peeled... there's more to come.\n\n<!-- END-->\n<p style=\"text-indent: 0px;\">Stay Manly,<\/p>\n\t<img src=\"https:\/\/fightfastvideos.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Jimbo-Sig.jpg\" height=\"49px\">\nJimbo, Editor\nMan Skills\n\n<strong>P.S.<\/strong> Oh... and another thing. 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And right now you can now get over <strong>5 hours of the best parts of this material<\/strong> -- some of the most treasured secrets and dirty tricks of these incredible men... <strong><em>for FREE!<\/em><\/strong>\n\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.fightfast.com\/nbcv\/ULTCRS\/ntbt-k.php?utm_campaign=Man-Skills-26_UCRSE&amp;utm_medium=post&amp;utm_source=blog&amp;utm_content=77558100&amp;utm_term=existing-list\"><strong>&gt;&gt; Interested? Good. Get your free training HERE! &lt;&lt;<\/strong><\/a>\n\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Heads-up&#8230; I&#8217;m on vacation again for a couple weeks, (my goal is to increase it to 52-weeks hoping nobody will notice). So today I&#8217;m bringing you an &#8220;oldie but goodie&#8221;. 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